Hey people wazzap!! Its been a while since my last post and this time I really want to share something different yet common with y'all. There is a "Special friend" of mine who does everything you should not do when you fight with friends. Here just check em out:
Do not: Forget to ask yourself why?: A lot of people only fight for the sake of fighting. They tend to forget why they are fighting and it becomes pretty messy. Know the purpose of your fight and stay open minded.
Do not: Make it an emotional fight: When you fight with close friends you would like to have a physical one rather than an emotional one. Alot of people might not agree to it but you know physical wounds tend to heal quickly and of course you wont hit your friend hard. So that's a more playful approach. Fighting via chat or pigeons are very dangerous. It might turn ugly and you will lose him/her forever! Except if the person is a lil too forgiving. (Like me ;) )
Do not:Lie : They say truth hurts but lies angers! It builds up a feeling of hatred and distrust in the mind of your friend you are fighting with. Do not tell him or her things that aren't really true. A few days ago, erm make that months ago someone said xyz is 10 times ...oh well I guess it was 100 times, no may be 1000 time, arrgh who cares? Yea That someone said xyz is n times better than me. Then that person regretted it( Oh wait until he/she reads this, am dead!).
Do not jump on to conclusions: Listen you your own inner voice as well as the other persons views and keep and open mind. Like they say open mind for a different view \m/. This way both the opposing parties will resolve the fight and there will be a positive outcome of it.
Make sure you memorize these points before you staple someone or scratch someone real hard. And above all...IF YOU DO NOT AGREE AND FIGHT AND STILL REMAIN FRIENDS THEN Y'ALL ARE BEST FRIENDS!
P.S:I would be happy if you left a comment!
Do not: Forget to ask yourself why?: A lot of people only fight for the sake of fighting. They tend to forget why they are fighting and it becomes pretty messy. Know the purpose of your fight and stay open minded.
Do not: Make it an emotional fight: When you fight with close friends you would like to have a physical one rather than an emotional one. Alot of people might not agree to it but you know physical wounds tend to heal quickly and of course you wont hit your friend hard. So that's a more playful approach. Fighting via chat or pigeons are very dangerous. It might turn ugly and you will lose him/her forever! Except if the person is a lil too forgiving. (Like me ;) )
Do not:Lie : They say truth hurts but lies angers! It builds up a feeling of hatred and distrust in the mind of your friend you are fighting with. Do not tell him or her things that aren't really true. A few days ago, erm make that months ago someone said xyz is 10 times ...oh well I guess it was 100 times, no may be 1000 time, arrgh who cares? Yea That someone said xyz is n times better than me. Then that person regretted it( Oh wait until he/she reads this, am dead!).
Do not jump on to conclusions: Listen you your own inner voice as well as the other persons views and keep and open mind. Like they say open mind for a different view \m/. This way both the opposing parties will resolve the fight and there will be a positive outcome of it.
Make sure you memorize these points before you staple someone or scratch someone real hard. And above all...IF YOU DO NOT AGREE AND FIGHT AND STILL REMAIN FRIENDS THEN Y'ALL ARE BEST FRIENDS!
P.S:I would be happy if you left a comment!
